Relationships. Aren't you just dwarfed by the enormity of these, some so close while some distant yet most of them precious? I know I am. In this voyage we call life these bonds are isles to which our emotions remain anchored. At times storms damage these leading to directionless drifts. Still what they give our lives is stability that we often have no idea we seek.
Even though we could live happily alone the lack of relationships makes us lonely which I hear isn't something to look forward to.
For me it is my inner circle that makes for my steady sailing through life's rough seas. You know those few people without whom chances of being shipwrecked far outweigh any other odds? Of-course, the flip side to that is if anything happens to anyone in that circle it becomes tough staying afloat.
So today on this Saturday night I thought why not share with you a thing or two about relationships? Words of wisdom if you could call it so. Alright, I'm not really sure if these are words of wisdom but let's just call it advice under the influence extreme boredom and two huge glasses full of coke?
Let's just give it a try. Shall we begin then?
'Even though we could live happily alone the lack of relationships makes us lonely which I hear isn't something to look forward to.'
Alright. Here goes.
Sometimes words fail to convey what we really want to say. You know you might end up using every possible word in your dictionary but all of that turns out futile. It's not the end of the world though. We just need to remember that at times it's up to the person in front hearing all those words to actually listen to what you couldn't really convey.
Like they say you need to set the one you love free and if they come back it was meant to be. Something similar holds true for safe and secure relationships too. You can't tie down a person to be with you always. Well, alright not always but you get the picture. No amount of coaxing will make the person do that for you. At-least not voluntarily. So it's best to let the person be. Set them free so to say.
Never go to sleep angry. You must have heard about that I hope? You know it's true. Now I know it's not always possible but attempts need to be made. Someone in the relationship needs to take that step. Of-course every fight won't end just when you want it to but then all that matters is that you tried to resolve whatever was tugging at your hearts.
'We just need to remember that at times it's up to the person in front hearing all those words to actually listen to what you couldn't really convey.'
Well, I think that's enough for today. Too much gyan
is not good for health you know. But yes let me know what you think. Also let me in on any secret mantras you might have about relationships.
Time to watch Mary Kom
now. See you tomorrow.